Filosofi Air

Air bersifat mengalah, namun selalu tidak pernah
kalah...

Air mematikan api dan membersihkan kotoran...

Kalau merasa sekiranya akan dikalahkan, air
meloloskan diri dalam bentuk uap dan kembali
mengembun...

Air merapuhkan besi sehingga hancur menjadi
abu...

Bilamana bertemu batu arang, dia akan berbelok
untuk kemudian meneruskan perjalanannya
kembali...

Air membuat jernih udara sehingga angin menjadi
mati(saat hujan turun)...

Air memberikan jalan pada hambatan dengan
segala kerendahan hati, karena dia sadar bahwa
tak ada satu kekuatan apapun yang dapat
mencegah perjalanannya menuju lautan...

Air menang dengan mengalah, dia tak pernah
menyerang namun selalu menang pada akhir
perjuangannya

Meski dipaksa menjadi es, maka ia akan beranomali
meluap-luap sebelum mendekati titik beku.
Meski dipaksa menjadi uap, maka ia akan berpencar
di udara secara perlahan, setitik demi setitik.
Dan ketahuilah bahwa
air tidak akan pernah lenyap,
walau dalam wujud berbeda.

Pelajaran yang dapat diambil dari air :

1. Fokus

Tetesan air yang tertuju disatu titik, akan lebih cepat mengikis batu karang dibandingkan tetesan yang berpindah-pindah tempat. Begitu pula kita yang ingin sukses dalam kehidupan ini. Ingatlah untuk selalu fokus disatu tujuan, sehingga seberapa susahnya tujuan yang ingin kita raih, akhirnya dengan fokus, kita bisa menggapainya.

2. Ulet dan Pantang Menyerah

Jika kita amati kembali, selain fokus, air juga menetes terus menerus tanpa mengenal lelah. Jika ia hanya menetes sekali dua kali, akan sangat tidak mungkin dapat membuat batu karang itu terkikis. Air harus selalu menetes terus menerus tanpa berhenti. Disini ada pelajaran penting, yaitu seberapapun besar masalah yang kita hadapi, jika kita bisa fokus dan ulet untuk mengupasnya, niscaya akan terpecahkan juga masalah tersebut. Kita sering bertemu dengan orang yang ingin bisa dalam hal tertentu. Mereka mencoba belajar, tetapi setelah bertemu masalah mereka menyerah. Jika mereka mencoba belajar sampai ke 99 kali dan akhirnya menyerah, maka mereka tidak akan dapat mempelajari ilmu itu. Padahal jika sekali lagi ia belajar, barangkali di usaha yang ke 100 kali itulah permasalahan yang dihadapi akan terpecahkan. Jadi janganlah pernah menyerah untuk memecahkan.



P.S : pengen banget menjadi seperti air =)

Love yourself,guys =D

For u,women

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition(or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behaviour.* Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. -Isn't this TRUE!!!!!

Never move into his mother's house.

Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.* Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other women... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another prepare.

-Oprah Winfrey-